Title: A Home in
Tibet
Author: Tsering Wangmo Dhompa
Publisher: Penguin – Viking, 2013 (First)
ISBN: 978-0-670-08693-1
Pages: 303
Tsering Wangmo Dhompa is an ethnic Tibetan
who studied in India and now lives in the U.S. She is a poet and this book is
her first full length volume. Her mother left Tibet in 1959 when China invaded
and reached India. Tsering was born in India, but she grew up hearing and
cherishing her mother’s fond memories of her childhood in Tibet. After her
mother’s demise in a road accident, the author located her extended family in
Dhompa, Eastern Tibet. This book is the poetic narrative of her travels to her
motherland, where she had become sufficiently foreign as to bypass all
inhibitions traditionally commanded from native women. She returned to the U.S
after the visit and tells the world of the sights, people, animals and Buddhism
of Tibet.
The
respect and devotion Tibetans express towards lamas, their spiritual masters
and advisers, is a recurring theme of the book. The lamas help the common
people in their hour of need, by offering astrological recommendations,
clearing the laity’s doubts on every issue and even offering medicines and
healing tips, when they are too sick to be cured by native Tibetan medicine.
People adore them and the more higher they go in the ecclesiastical hierarchy,
the level of adoration is akin to divinity. When fur caps and other leather
articles became fashion in Tibet, it only took a single admonishment from the
Dalai Lama for people to give up the habit. Lamas’ status in society may be
compared to that of Brahmins in India, but the title is not hereditary as in
India. Traditional governments jealously guarded their organization. The five
grave offenses defined are matricide, patricide, murder of a holy man, causing
hurt to good men, and creating discord between lamas. And the punishment? To
gouge out the offender’s eye, to cut his throat, to cut off his hands, to toss
him from a high cliff, or to throw him into deep water. People used to encase
revered lamas’ finger nails in pendants and wear on their necks. Even with all this
adulation, we doubt whether they gave anything to the society in return.
Tibetan society was ignorant and illiterate which naturally suited the lamas’
purpose. They didn’t venture to teach their disciples or to offer any of the
civic amenities which were in their power to perform. One of the indirect
advantages of Chinese occupation is the curtailment of lamas’ privileges. When
people get to know things, lamas will find their own natural place. However,
Tsering Wangmo does not raise any point against the status of them, rather, she
acknowledges them as the Tibetans’ spiritual guides.
The
author’s emotional attachment to her late mother is touching. After escaping
from Tibet soon after China’s invasion in 1959, Tsering’s mother wandered for
three years under great duress, to find a way out of her subjugated country to
Nepal and then to India. Being tied up in a marriage that occurred rather early
in her adulthood, she didn’t get on well with her husband, who didn’t obtain a
place in the mother or the daughter’s hearts. The author calls her father “her
mother’s husband”. So complete is the estrangement that the daughter looked
forward only to her mother for love, support, guidance and companionship.
Descriptions of the duo’s train journeys in which the daughter’s anguished wait
for her mother’s return to the train is very moving. And the mother left her
only child after she died in vehicle collision. Tsering found herself alone in the
world. She reached out to her extended family in Tibet where numerous cousins
warmly welcomed her to their fold. There is no separate word in the Tibetan
language for cousins, other than brother or sister. The love that existed
between the author and her mother is sure to haunt the reader for some time to
come.
Hatred
towards the Chinese – to their occupation of Tibet, their administration, its
leaders and the large scale changes that is being wrought on the land – is clearly
evident throughout the text. No wonder the Chinese refused to grand her visa
later, when she tried to visit her homeland again. The 1959 invasion was
brutal, most of the older generation carries the scars on their bodies and
souls, of the inhuman misery meted out to the defenseless Tibetans by the
streams of incoming Chinese soldiers. Many were killed, tortured and imprisoned
for long prison terms. They incarcerated the lamas as well, in a bid to prevent
a rebel leadership from taking place by the efforts of these educated men and
also to obliterate Tibetan culture. After the 1980s, the conditions slightly
improved. China now adorns Tibet to make her look good to tourists. Mao’s
Cultural Revolution was a time of hell to Tibet – but that was true for China
as well. Immense improvements in infrastructure has been brought to Tibet by
the Chinese. Tibetans were generally lazy and lived an unsanitary way of life.
Many of them didn’t even wash themselves for months together, as the author
notes! They are naturally prone to violence as many nomads carry knives in
their person and not much reluctant to plunge it upon an opponent. This
observation contrasts with Tsering’s assertion at a different place that
Buddhism and its doctrine of non-violence is holding its people from forming an
effective force to fight the Chinese.
The
book is rich with fine diction and lyrical text that carries the narrative to
the reaches of poetry. Tsering Wangmo’s command of the English language and
vocabulary is amazing. Her choice of words and usage is scholarly. She has been
downright successful in bringing out the joys of meeting one’s relatives in a
country that was home to her ancestors, but from which she has been banned
entry. Also, the anguish and impotent rage that characterizes a nation in
captivity is so heart-touchingly illustrated.
The
book is highly recommended.
Rating:
3 Star